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Facebook - How Should it be used?
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Facebook - How Should it be used?

09/03/10 | by Phillip [mail] | Categories: web

As a sort of follow up to my discussion on social networking, I'd like to investigate what Facebook should be used for. In my personal opinion there are 3 distinct and obvious answers.

Option 1. Facebook's Original Intent
Everyone has heard about Facebook's origin. It was intended to be for Harvard students as a sort of social phonebook. This seems to me to say that it was designed with the idea of meeting new people in mind. And in the older designs, I feel this was apparent. There was a public wall where you could swap messages with other people and that was the main interaction. Privacy rantings aside - Facebook was founded to be (for the most part) public. If a user was to choose this option, it would surely mean that the only things that would be posted would be the types of things that would be said in public. However, more recent design changes have change the basic mode of communication away from wall postings (which are like talking in public) to status updates (which are like shouting in public). This changes the whole dynamic, so instead of only posting things you'd talk about in public, a user would probably only post things they'd be comfortable shouting about in public.

Option 2. Social Networking Your Personal Brand
This option is the market yourself option. You friend everyone you've ever met because you want to be able to contact them at a moments notice. You're the one your old class president turns to because even when its time for your 5 year reunion - you'll still be friends with everyone. This is one of the many ways you market yourself to the world and you want as many people to see it as possible. This is also a very public option, but it has a key difference - you are being active about putting yourself out there. You are "social networking". You'd post only those things you want the whole world from your best friend to your boss to the CIA to know about you.

Option 2b. Keeping In Touch
I list this not as a separate option because it shares the same user idea as the previous one. You friend everyone. But your motivation is to keep in touch with all of these old friends. You are probably not as active as putting yourself out there, but the same rules for what you post would apply.

Option 3. Privacy Is King
You are trying to maintain a social network for your close friends. You only friend those who you actually talk to with some frequency. You might feel comfortable posting pictures, events, and such so you can share your life with your friends. Despite the name, you are not necessarily freaked out about your privacy, but you don't want your boss seeing those pictures of you on the beach.

I don't claim that any of these is better than any other. However, in my quest to decide what to do with my personal facebook account, I wanted to solicit other's opinions. What option do you fall under? Is there another answer I've missed? Feel like I've misrepresented what you do? Post your choice, praise, or grievance in the comments!



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Comment from: Bill [Member] Email
You probably do not what your Dad's opinion but here it is anyway :-)

Facebook is a great way to stay in touch publicly. it is kind of like this blog, but more accepted in netspace.

Two area of concern - first, some people use it to escape interacting face to face with real people - this is a bad thing. Humans need to interact and define social skills to be successful. Second, some people become obsessed with it and stay on it all the time and let major portions of their lives fail (relationships, friends, school, work, sleep, eating, etc).

90% of it is good and fun and there are no problems, but 10% is evil and all consuming - as Confucius would say - "balance in all things."
09/04/10 @ 07:58
Comment from: Mari [Member]
http://www.facebook.com/home.php?#!/photo.php?pid=10452603&fbid=416535615295&op=1&o=global&view=global&subj=818825366&id=631125295
Just speaking of social network things- it's about time you changed your profile picture :P that one's cute. And to weigh in on facebook, there's something about making wall posts and things of that nature completely public that turns me off.. I like the keeping in touch with people you talk to/talked to at some point side of social networking. There's a kind of ease to talking to people several hundred miles away who just happened to notice you were online and say hi because you haven't caught up in a while.

I also have to agree with the above comment that doing too much on facebook can kill the hope of having a functional life outside the internet, and ironically doesn't equate to a social life in reality, though it is handy for making plans with people.
09/04/10 @ 10:52

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